20th May 1932 – 25th July 2026.
Remembering Inderjit Kaur
Our beloved Indri.
May we surrender to our idealistic and unreasonable selves that dare to whisper dreams.
In the late 90s-early 2000s, my grandmother whispered her desire
to be an actor, leading to decades of collaboration where she acted,
and I photographed her.
Over the years, she has played the role of a princess, a politician ( a party for senior citizens), a scientist, fairy and more. Through these acts, Indri defied what a grandmother should be like, a woman of her age should behave like or dress like. She shocked some, inspired many more. led by courage, permission, joy and freedom - her journey of becoming her new self has been my greatest teacher and inspiration.
Years later, swinging between conviction and disbelief my grandmother asked out loud “ Am I an actor now ?
I am, but not one with training, its natural. I know mein kuch te kar sakdi haan. I guess I can act, after all.”
This collaboration has been a gift and supported by a growing community. We visited Akademie Schloss Solitude artist residency programme. Thank you for hosting us with generosity and care. She was featured in publications including BBC, TED, The Hindu.Shown at the National Portrait Gallery, Centre for Contemporary Photography, Bangalore International Center. In recent years. It was most fulfilling to bring our collaboration to a master class at Srishti where students reflected on the role of design and ageing. I bring this in because Indri’s journey began with an individual’s wish, but didn’t end there. It was intended to affect shifts in how we understand ageing, the role of desire, and in recent years I have been thinking about ageing and agency.
This is where Indri, my beloved grandmother, will live on.
I leave you with the words she gifted me.
Take them to your audacious dreams.
Fikar Not - Don’t Worry.
Dheent Ban - Be Stubborn.
Agge Vadh - Move Forward.
Indri
Indri and Jasmeen Patheja are also team grandmother and granddaughter.
Together they have been creating a series of photo performances.
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Artist In Public Service. Mobilising For The Right To Be Defenceless
“ An idea has no significance or meaning unless someone makes it their own”.
Jasmeen Patheja (b. 1979, Kolkata) is an award-winning Artist in Public Service, working at the intersection of art and feminist movement-building. She builds ideas and facilitates collective action for the right to be defenceless.
In 2003, she founded Blank Noise in response to the silence around street harassment in India and globally. Blank Noise is a community of Action Sheroes/Theyroes/Heroes—individuals stepping in to end gender-based violence. Over two decades, the initiative has developed participatory methodologies and art interventions that shift public consciousness. Patheja’s work is rooted in listening to survivors of sexual violence, exploring themes of fear, memory, shame, empathy, desire, belonging, defencelessness, and the politics of fear.
Key projects include I Never Ask For It (2004–ongoing), Talk To Me (2012–ongoing), Meet To Sleep (2015–ongoing) and Hahaha Sangha. Her practice spans performance, facilitation, photography, installation, sound, and video.
She is a TED speaker and a TED and Ashoka Fellow. Awards include the Visible Award (I Never Ask For It/Meet To Sleep), the International Award for Public Art (Talk To Me, 2015), the Jane Lombard Fellowship (Vera List Center, 2019), and the CARE Arts for Gender Equality Fellowship (Rockefeller Foundation, 2023). The BBC named her one of 12 artists changing the world (2019). Residencies include Akademie Schloss Solitude (Germany), the Rockefeller Foundation at Bellagio, and Srishti Institute of Art, Design and Technology.
Her work has been exhibited at the Ford Foundation Gallery (NYC), the National Portrait Gallery (UK), the Bronx Museum of the Arts (USA), and the Centre for Contemporary Photography (Australia). Her work has been featured in The New York Times, The Guardian, The Atlantic, BBC, Bloomberg, and The Hindu, among others.
Patheja has delivered talks at McGill University, Concordia University, Christ University, Mount Carmel College, Azim Premji University, and the College of William & Mary. She has taught at Grinnell College (USA) and Srishti Institute of Art, Design and Technology, where her classrooms become communities of Action Sheroes/Theyroes/Heroes. Students engage with the complexities of gender-based violence, locate their own experiences within it, and cultivate agency in designing for social change. She has over seven years of experience in feminist mentoring, including her work with CREA, supporting young women leaders across organisations in India through a South Asia-focused programme.
Patheja has collaborated with her grandmother, Inderjit Kaur Indri bringing attention to ageing agency and desire.
Her practice reflects on the visible and invisible labour of socially engaged art, the finite and infinite, and the tangible and intangible forms of making for social change. Through Blank Noise and I Never Ask For It, she brings attention to what she calls the “infrastructures of listening to survivors of violence”—building capacities and methodologies for listening.
With over two decades of practice, Patheja continues to explore questions that shape the relationships between civil society organisations, art institutions, artists, and social change. Committed to strengthening socially engaged art, Patheja develops frameworks that foreground listening, care, and collective action.
Build methodologies that guide our capacity
to feel deeply, fearlessly so that we are awakened.
Mehsoos : To Feel / / / Eshsaas : To Realise
Tareeka : Methodology /// Tarkeeb : Solution
Hamdard : Empathic /// Insaniyat : Humanity
Blank Noise
Blank Noise
#INeverAskForIt :
Patheja has been working on ending victim blame by building testimonies of clothing, since 2004.
I Never Ask For It rests on the power and truth of lived experiences of sexual violence.
The mission is an invitation to heal from internalised blame.
To build solidarity through acts of listening.
To speak if it serves you.
Blank Noise interventions, Meet To Sleep , and ongoing mission I Never Ask For It Learn more >


